On April 31st Wendy Kimball Mack passed away from a sudden aortic rupture. She was 7 months pregnant. The baby passed away a couple days later. She left behind a husband and three living children. Wendy and I went all through school together. We weren't really close but we were always friendly and when we did interact I remember her being so nice and friendly to me. I can truly say that her passing has changed my life. I found out at her funeral how closely our lives mirrored each other. We went to school together, we both became CNA's in high school at Lehi, we both served spanish speaking missions at the same time, we got married the same month of the same year, we both graduated from UVU with our nursing degree, be both work with children (I am sure we cared for some of the same kids, me in home care and her in the hospital). As I learned of her passing I was so sad and heartbroken for her husband and children. As I read their blog I couldn't hold back the tears. I came to realize how far from being ready to return to my father in heaven that I am. She was such an example for me. She lived her life in such a way that she was ready when the Lord called her home. I can't say that about myself. It is selfish for me to say this but if I didn't know better I would say that she passed for my benefit. Ever since she passed I have enjoyed every moment I have with my husband and little boy. I have been more patient and loving towards then. Before I was so quick to anger and I have found that tendency lessening dramatically since Wendy's passing. Since she passed I haven't had more than a few hours pass without thinking of her or her family.
I feel horrible that this had to happen to Wendy but I am thankful for the change it made in me. If you want to read about her family there is a wonderful post by her husband Denny bellow. She did not have life insurance so there is also a link on her blog that will allow you to donate if you are able.
http://dennyandwendy.blogspot.com/2011/05/our-sweet-wendy.html
